tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34763217948835471152024-03-13T09:14:22.832-05:00Girldrivecriss-crossing america, redefining feminismGIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.comBlogger140125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-44829204234665188632009-09-02T11:08:00.004-05:002009-09-08T23:56:35.238-05:00GIRLDRIVE HAS MOVED!<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-size:180%;" >Hello! Thanks for visiting Girldrive. You will be redirected in mere moments to the NEW SITE:<br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">www.girl-drive.com</span><br /><br />Enjoy!</span><br /></div>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-18002327063723453952009-08-12T18:23:00.004-05:002009-08-12T18:27:03.086-05:00Rubyfruit Jungle, oh how I heart you<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_OZ8PG4bN2g4/SoNPwE3kqtI/AAAAAAAAAEc/QlqG8RuhhC8/s1600-h/3815958706_9e8ca3efec.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 118px; height: 200px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_OZ8PG4bN2g4/SoNPwE3kqtI/AAAAAAAAAEc/QlqG8RuhhC8/s200/3815958706_9e8ca3efec.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5369222868114909906" border="0" /></a><br />Okay, so this doesn't really have to do with Girldrive, per se, except for the fact that it's about finding your feminist identity...but I just <a href="http://bitchmagazine.org/post/rave-on-writer-nona-willis-aronowitz-on-rubyfruit-jungle">wrote a piece</a> on Bitch's site about how much I love Rita Mae Brown's <span style="font-style: italic;">Rubyfruit Jungle</span>. It seriously is the best feminist novel I've ever read. Check it out.GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08560854349510652324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-53964006294925317462009-08-04T22:40:00.003-05:002009-08-04T22:57:29.326-05:00Preview: some dates for the Girldrive launch<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SnkDD4OsNuI/AAAAAAAADPU/fAFd4fx5FGU/s1600-h/titan-launch.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 276px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SnkDD4OsNuI/AAAAAAAADPU/fAFd4fx5FGU/s320/titan-launch.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366323796157150946" border="0" /></a><br /><a href="http://www.sealpress.com/">Seal Press</a> and I have been hard at working settling some dates for various Girldrive events. So far we're planning on:<br /><ul><li>a reading at <a href="http://kgbbar.com/calendar/events/girldrive_criss_crossing_america_redefining_feminism/">KGB Bar</a> in NYC on Oct 29 at 7 p.m. (featuring some ladies from the book)<br /></li></ul><ul><li>a classy-ass launch party (kid-and-underage-friendly!) at <a href="http://www.airgallery.org/">A.I.R. Gallery</a> in NYC on Oct 30 at 7:30 p.m.<br /></li></ul><ul><li>a reading at <a href="http://www.womenandchildrenfirst.com/">Women and Children First</a> in Chicago on Nov 7 at 7:30 p.m.<br /></li></ul><ul><li>a reading at <a href="http://www.left-bank.com/">Left Bank Books</a> in St. Louis on Nov 22 at 4 p.m.<br /></li></ul>I'm also hoping to hit up Detroit, Milwaukee, Madison, and any college or bookstore that invites me within driving range! (Or if you want to fly me out, that's cool too.)GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-28478857397134939752009-07-23T14:12:00.004-05:002009-07-31T00:48:45.824-05:00Real quick: Jezebel gives Girldrive a shoutout<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_OZ8PG4bN2g4/Smi315ShGcI/AAAAAAAAAD8/JRZ4dXzSdSE/s1600-h/images-1.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 108px; height: 119px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_OZ8PG4bN2g4/Smi315ShGcI/AAAAAAAAAD8/JRZ4dXzSdSE/s320/images-1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5361737492924012994" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div>(Thought I'd <a href="http://jezebel.com/5318476/riding-in-cars-with-girls">tell you</a> in case you didn't see it...)</div><div><br /></div><div>Also, not sure whether to laugh or cry, but one of the comments jokingly compared the Girldrive vid to <a href="http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/b080b3abab/my-mother-s-red-hat-w-alicia-silverstone-alanis-morissette">this fake trailer</a> by Alicia Silverstone and Alanis Morissette. Crazy coincidence? Um, hopefully.</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="white-space: pre;font-family:'Lucida Grande';font-size:12;" ><object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" id="ordie_player_b080b3abab" height="328" width="512"><param name="movie" value="http://player.ordienetworks.com/flash/fodplayer.swf"><param name="flashvars" value="key=b080b3abab"><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed flashvars="key=b080b3abab" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" quality="high" src="http://player.ordienetworks.com/flash/fodplayer.swf" name="ordie_player_b080b3abab" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" height="328" width="512"></embed></object><div style="text-align: left; font-size: x-small; margin-top: 0pt; width: 512px;"><a href="http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/b080b3abab/my-mother-s-red-hat-w-alicia-silverstone-alanis-morissette" title="from Alicia Silverstone, lauren, Alanis Morissette, and FOD Team">My Mother's Red Hat w/Alicia Silverstone & Alanis Morissette</a> from <a href="http://www.funnyordie.com/alicia_silverstone">Alicia Silverstone</a></div></span><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08560854349510652324noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-30214060676943271592009-07-18T04:21:00.008-05:002009-07-21T13:21:45.416-05:00Girldrive trailer!<div>Check out the new Girldrive trailer, which has actual footage of our road trip (it actually kinda matches that photo of us on the right!). The video was made by the amazing and talented Lucy, who came with us for a week on our adventure, and brought her video camera along with her. Pretty soon, there will be shorter trailers of a few individual interviews to get you excited for the book.<br /></div><div><br /></div><div style="font-weight: bold;">Note: the new website (advertised at the end) doesn't work yet, obviously. That'll be up in a couple of weeks, I just couldn't wait to share the video!<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: normal;"><object height="344" width="425"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/b3TWA20hb98&hl=en&fs=1&"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/b3TWA20hb98&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" height="344" width="425"></embed></object></span><br /></div>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08560854349510652324noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-56168108438724787952009-07-03T17:02:00.003-05:002009-07-03T23:59:03.269-05:00Become a fan of Girldrive on Facebook!Hi everyone,<br /><br />I just created a <a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/pages/Girldrive/100194238527">Facebook fan page</a>, a place to keep up on updates and events related to Girldrive. Clearly if you read the blog, you already get these, but please become a fan so that your hundreds of Facebook friends will see the little icon, get curious, and click on it!<br /><br />It also has some photos that aren't on the blog. Enjoy!<br /><br />-NonaGIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08560854349510652324noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-79739399337747086322009-06-16T09:36:00.005-05:002009-08-06T01:14:18.700-05:00Girldrive's cover<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/Snp0sWbNr3I/AAAAAAAADPc/M8mD2ZvNGAE/s1600-h/girldrive+cover.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 311px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/Snp0sWbNr3I/AAAAAAAADPc/M8mD2ZvNGAE/s400/girldrive+cover.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366730211248156530" border="0" /></a><br />Yay! Girldrive's cover is finally done!<br /><br />It features the beautiful faces of some of our interviewees on this blog, like <a href="http://girldrive.blogspot.com/2007/01/new-york-city-mehiko.html">Mehiko</a>, <a href="http://girldrive.blogspot.com/2007/11/new-orleans-day-1-loyola-ladies.html">Puja</a>, <a href="http://girldrive.blogspot.com/2008/01/new-york-city-pia.html">Pia</a>, <a href="http://girldrive.blogspot.com/2007/10/seattle-day-1-gina-and-banji.html">Gina</a>, <a href="http://girldrive.blogspot.com/2007/11/new-orleans-day-3-noel.html">Noel</a>, <a href="http://girldrive.blogspot.com/2007/10/los-angeles-ladies-women-and-biz.html">Julia</a>, and <a href="http://girldrive.blogspot.com/2007/11/austin-big-star-burlesque-troupe.html">Raine</a>, as well as a few women we met after our initial journey.<br /><br />This means I can finally make a Facebook fan page for Girldrive, too, since I have some actual art to accompany it. Be sure to become a fan so that your Facebook friends can see the icon and learn what the book's all about!<br /><br />I keep promising a new site, and it is indeed in the works. I'll link to it from this blog as soon as it's done!<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />NonaGIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08560854349510652324noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-30311779779647136362009-05-21T11:50:00.005-05:002009-05-21T13:55:49.343-05:00RainTaxi reviews Belladonna book honoring Emma<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_OZ8PG4bN2g4/ShWjhRzfjmI/AAAAAAAAADQ/_BivtZ4zamI/s1600-h/Ebernstein-backcover.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 185px; height: 223px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_OZ8PG4bN2g4/ShWjhRzfjmI/AAAAAAAAADQ/_BivtZ4zamI/s320/Ebernstein-backcover.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5338352725427981922" border="0" /></a><br />Thought I'd link to <a href="http://www.raintaxi.com/online/2009spring/bernstein.shtml">this piece</a> (better late than never), an amazing and thoughtful review of the fourth book in the <a href="http://belladonnaseries.org/">Belladonna</a> series, which honors Emma, written by Ellen Kennedy Michel of <a href="http://www.raintaxi.com/">RainTaxi Review of Books</a>. It has a lot to say about Girldrive, too--and it's very spot-on.<br /><br />An excerpt about my essay in Belladonna:<br /><p>"In her own contribution to <em>Belladonna #4</em>, “Emma’s Poetry,” Nona Willis Aronowitz writes: “Emma was always disappointed that ‘GIRLdrive the book’ could not possibly embody the headiness of ‘GIRLdrive the experience’. . . She wanted us to be more conspicuous characters in the story of GIRLdrive, more than just the talking heads of the odyssey that forged connections between hundreds of women across thirty-five cities.” Nona’s prose, both here and elsewhere, conveys the energy and intelligence of GIRLdrive. The two women knew how to seize the moment, identifying the gaps and the overlaps between their forebears and feminists (or “not”) of their own generation..."</p><p>And more specifically about Emma:</p><p>"It is clear from <em>Belladonna #4</em> that feminism, photography, and artistic expression have lost a fierce, articulate, forthright, inquiring practitioner, the voice and vision of a young adult who was romantic, idealistic, impetuous, talented, and knowledgeable beyond her years. Her pace was fast, eager, and self-reflective. Emma’s photography (for which she earned a degree with Honors, with images such as the one here, of a friend) played with the notion of masquerade: “In all of the photographs, a set of elusive and unknowable eyes peers out from the layers of artifice, trying to see and be seen. There is a tragic element, as despite all the attempts at engendering an image that matches a mental picture, the woman underneath the clothes and behind the skin remains a mystery to us and to herself.” That Emma suffered so much at the end of her life confers a harder look at the issues that consumed her."</p><p>It's a great piece. Check out the rest <a href="http://www.raintaxi.com/online/2009spring/bernstein.shtml">here</a>.<br /></p>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08560854349510652324noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-24241861111814919562009-04-23T20:50:00.002-05:002009-04-23T21:21:30.074-05:00Update: Galleys headed my way!Yay! My deadline has officially passed and the first galleys of Girldrive are en route to my house. AND so is the second half of my advance, which means I will be abandoning blogspot for a dot-com very shortly. Look out for a new Girldrive website in the next couple months!<br /><br />Love,<br />NonaGIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08560854349510652324noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-68348960776440175252009-03-26T11:03:00.003-05:002009-03-29T20:25:29.667-05:00Women's History Month quizDeborah Siegel at Girl W/ Pen, one of Girldrive's fairy godmothers, is trying to pass on <a href="http://girlwpen.com/?p=1572">this blog quiz</a>. If you have a blog, repost this and add a question of your own!<br /><br />(thanks to <a href="http://www.feministing.com/">Feministing</a> for the heads-up)<br /><br /><p>1. In 2009, women make up what percent of the U.S. Congress?<br />A. 3%<br />B. 17%<br />C. 33%<br />D. 50%</p> <p>2. How many CEOs of Fortune 500 companies are female?<br />A. 12<br />B. 28<br />C. 59<br />D. 84</p> <p>3. Who was the first First Lady to create her own media presence (ie hold regular press conferences, write a daily newspaper column and a monthly magazine column, and host a weekly radio show)?<br />A. Eleanor Roosevelt<br />B. Jacqueline Kennedy<br />C. Pat Nixon<br />D. Hillary Clinton</p> <p>4. The Equal Rights Amendment was first introduced to Congress in:<br />A. 1923<br />B. 1942<br />C. 1969<br />D. 1971</p> <p>5. Who was the first African-American woman to win the Nobel Prize for Literature?<br />A. Phyllis Wheatley<br />B. Alice Walker<br />C. Toni Morrison<br />D. Maya Angelou</p> <p>6. What percentage of union members are women today?<br />A. 10%<br />B. 25%<br />C. 35%<br />D. 45%</p> <p>7. What year did the Griswold v. Connecticut decision guarantee married women the right to birth control?<br />A. 1960<br />B. 1965<br />C. 1969<br />D. 1950</p><p>My added question:</p><p>8. What kick-ass woman said this phrase: "If I can't dance, it's not my revolution"?</p><p>A. Elizabeth Cady Stanton<br /></p><p>B. Emma Goldman<br /></p><p>C. Angela Davis<br /></p><p>D. Madonna<br /></p><p>Answers in the comments section....<br /></p>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08560854349510652324noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-19485815881850293592009-02-28T16:16:00.010-06:002009-03-08T20:26:48.496-05:00Belladonna* book honoring Emma<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SbRwT_rE6eI/AAAAAAAADLg/n9r5YVgqVOU/s1600-h/e1234215502.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 185px; height: 222px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SbRwT_rE6eI/AAAAAAAADLg/n9r5YVgqVOU/s320/e1234215502.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5310993349388593634" border="0" /></a><span style="line-height: 1.4;"><a href="http://www.belladonnaseries.org/">Belladonna*</a>, a reading series and small press devoted to the visibility of women writers, is publishing a book in their <a href="http://www.belladonnaseries.org/eldersseries.html">Elders series</a> dedicated to Emma. She was originally the editor on the project, which was connected to a panel that hadn't yet taken place. But she had completed her work for the book, and the event has morphed into a tribute to her and her art, both for GIRLdrive and elsewhere. I have a piece at the end called "Emma's Poetry." If you're in New York, check out the info for the book release event <a href="http://www.belladonnaseries.org/readingseries.html">here</a>.<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">You can buy the book <a href="http://www.belladonnaseries.org/books.html">here</a>. It's really a beautiful little collection, full of Emma's photographs and both of our writing, as well as an afterword by Johanna Drucker and interviews with Marjorie Perloff and Susan Bee, Emma's mom.</span></span>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-26578473513335855102009-02-26T17:16:00.006-06:002009-02-27T11:01:59.987-06:00Some Advance Press<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SackjXLo82I/AAAAAAAADLQ/au0N7BYhalU/s1600-h/youngfeminist_big.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 164px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SackjXLo82I/AAAAAAAADLQ/au0N7BYhalU/s320/youngfeminist_big.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5307250875816276834" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Check out this <a href="http://www.tooshytostop.com/index.php/2009/02/26/are-we-taking-feminism-for-granted/">nicely-put piece</a> on GIRLdrive in <a href="http://www.tooshytostop.com/">Too Shy To Stop</a>, a relatively new online magazine for "young people who live, play, study, or work in the United States."<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">It connects older feminists' reactions to young female Obama fans with some GIRLdrive revelations, which is kinda cool. Lemme know what you think!<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">(photo from Too Shy To Stop)GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-59502289369732440412009-02-19T17:15:00.002-06:002009-02-19T17:16:59.112-06:00This Is Awesome<script type="text/javascript" src="http://widgets.clearspring.com/o/4989c43d4b4d93ef/499de7f2ff7a6685/4989c43d4b4d93ef/449b0089/widget.js"></script>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-77596243610077577602009-01-11T12:27:00.008-06:002009-01-12T23:47:40.282-06:00Update: Intense Writing Time!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SWo8Fz552EI/AAAAAAAADJg/Z8cRkEvtDDk/s1600-h/P1000100.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 180px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SWo8Fz552EI/AAAAAAAADJg/Z8cRkEvtDDk/s320/P1000100.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5290106782830155842" border="0" /></a><span style="line-height: 1.4;" hi=""><span style="line-height: 1.4;" m="" taking="" some="" serious="" time="" finish="" girldrive="" s="" manuscript="" won="" t="" posting="" all="" that="" regularly="" during="" january="" as="" everyone="" probably="" have="" a="" whole="" lot="" more="" work="" do="" than="" and="" i="" want="" to="" make="" sure="" be="" the="" best="" it="" can=""><span style="line-height: 1.4;" i="" ll="" check="" back="" again="" soon="" and="" let="" everyone="" know="" what="" s="" wish="" me="" luck="" on="" the="" home="" nona="" more="" tributes="" to="">Hi everyone,<br /><br />I'm taking some serious time to finish the GIRLdrive manuscript, so I won't be posting all that regularly during January and February. As you all might imagine, I have a whole lot more work than I thought I would and I want to make our book the best it can possibly be.<br /><br />I'll check in with you soon. Wish me luck on the home stretch.<br /><br />Love,<br />Nona<br /><br />---<br />More tributes to Emma:<br /><br /><a href="http://epc.buffalo.edu/authors/bernstein/blog/">Her dad's tribute</a> (includes eulogies spoken at the service)<br /><br /><a href="http://thissongthatsong.com/?p=183">Daoud's song dedication</a><br /><br /><a href="http://oiei.wordpress.com/2009/01/05/remembering-emma/">Poem for Emma</a></span></span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;" hi=""><span style="line-height: 1.4;" m="" taking="" some="" serious="" time="" finish="" girldrive="" s="" manuscript="" won="" t="" posting="" all="" that="" regularly="" during="" january="" as="" everyone="" probably="" have="" a="" whole="" lot="" more="" work="" do="" than="" and="" i="" want="" to="" make="" sure="" be="" the="" best="" it="" can=""><span style="line-height: 1.4;" i="" ll="" check="" back="" again="" soon="" and="" let="" everyone="" know="" what="" s="" wish="" me="" luck="" on="" the="" home="" nona="" more="" tributes="" to=""><a href="http://www.sealpress.net/blog/2008/12/rest-in-peace-emma.php">Tribute from our publisher</a>, <a href="http://www.sealpress.com/">Seal Press</a><br /><br /><a href="http://oiei.wordpress.com/2009/01/05/remembering-emma/">Grace's post</a></span></span></span></div>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-22449562146219132462008-12-26T12:38:00.015-06:002009-01-03T19:49:27.532-06:00Emma, 1985-2008<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SVUqTHuwkmI/AAAAAAAADI8/IFbpqhhMlSQ/s1600-h/emma+on+the+road.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 266px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SVUqTHuwkmI/AAAAAAAADI8/IFbpqhhMlSQ/s400/emma+on+the+road.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5284176245770195554" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">My co-author of GIRLdrive, close friend, and intellectual soulmate Emma Bee Bernstein died on December 20th, 2008, in Venice, Italy. Unable to give Emma a fitting tribute on GIRLdrive until now (Emma had changed the password), I am finally able to honor her after my initial shock. The past six months had been an unimaginable nightmare for Emma, as she trudged through emotional turmoil and circumstantial stress almost daily, without allowing herself a minute of respite or peace of mind.<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Yet I want to believe that her despair was in spite of GIRLdrive, feminism, and our work together. During many bonding work sessions or long car rides, Emma confessed to me that this project was one of the main positive forces in her life. She cared so much about the fate of women and feminism in this country; Emma had many sides to her, but at her core was a fervently idealistic soul. I can only hope to bring forth her passion as I finish up our book, and somehow keep her misty-eyed utopianism alive amidst very real tragedy.<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">The other positive forces in her life, of course, were her countless loved ones. Emma touched and was touched by so many people, it's unbelievable. I've been reminded of this daily for the last six days, as dozens of people important to her have reached out to me.</span></span></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;"><span style="line-height: 1.4;"><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Love you girl. I will miss our adventures more than you can imagine.</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;">--Nona</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;"><span style="line-height: 1.4;"><span style="line-height: 1.4;">---------------<br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Courtney Martin of <a href="http://www.feministing.com/">Feministing</a>, one of our GIRLdrive interviewees, has written an amazingly insightful and honest tribute to Emma, linked <a href="http://www.feministing.com/archives/012878.html">here</a>.</span></span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;"><span style="line-height: 1.4;"><span style="line-height: 1.4;"><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Her close friend Sam has set up a <a href="http://www.flickr.com/groups/930403@N25/">Flickr album</a> to remember her through photos, the medium through which Emma reflected her artistic vision.<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">For New Yorkers, there will be a service on Wednesday, December 31st at 10:30 am, at the Plaza Jewish Community Chapel at 630 Amsterdam Ave (at 91st Street).<br /><br /></span></span></span></span></span></div>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-54060804086589764712008-12-14T23:55:00.006-06:002008-12-15T00:04:25.976-06:00Happy Birthday, Mom<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SUXzQtYWWWI/AAAAAAAADIw/OsWeL30FUcE/s1600-h/l34735567509_2752.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 275px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SUXzQtYWWWI/AAAAAAAADIw/OsWeL30FUcE/s320/l34735567509_2752.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5279893606546954594" border="0" /></a><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Today marks the birthday of my mother, Ellen Willis, who died on November 9, 2006. If you're a follower of this blog, you probably know that she was a major Second Wave feminist writer, critic, and activist. The best way to honor her today is by reading one of her pieces, many of which you can find simply by Googling my mother's name. Every so often I am startled by the staggering amount of fans coming out of the woodwork, to tell me how much they were influenced by her work, and how much they love and admire her.<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Her life's work was one of the main inspirations for GIRLdrive, and continues to be an inspiration to me every second of every day. As my dad wrote to me in an email today:<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">"Ellen is always on my mind and heart. But we sometimes need markers like birthdays to help us focus for more than fleeting moments."<br /><br />Yes.<br /><br />--Nona</span></span></span>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-54988741404082140852008-12-08T18:16:00.005-06:002008-12-08T18:22:13.044-06:00Update: Nona on The Golden Notebook<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/ST25uS-6MnI/AAAAAAAADHw/bIgwS2Yz-hA/s1600-h/006093140X.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 213px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/ST25uS-6MnI/AAAAAAAADHw/bIgwS2Yz-hA/s320/006093140X.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277578543368909426" /></a><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Hi guys,<div><br /></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Couldn't resist telling you about an interesting project that I'm involved in. The Institute for the Future of the Book is running an online think tank funded by the MacArthur Foundation about Doris Lessing's The Golden Notebook, a feminist classic and, apparently, one of <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/02/books/review/Meacham-t.html">Barack's favorite books</a>, as well.</span></div><div><br /></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Six other readers, all female critics/writers, and I are participating in a close reading of the Nobel Prize-winning author's novel, literally commenting in the margins as we read along. Check out the website <a href="http://thegoldennotebook.org/">here</a>.</span></div><div><br /></div><div>-Nona</div></span>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-28200047220721543152008-11-12T12:33:00.006-06:002008-12-03T13:13:22.711-06:00Mid-Week Memo: The Abortion Debate<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/STbZSFOdjDI/AAAAAAAADHo/oIoHsreGc_s/s1600-h/red+river+ladies.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 225px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/STbZSFOdjDI/AAAAAAAADHo/oIoHsreGc_s/s400/red+river+ladies.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5275642918174821426" border="0" /></a><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Last month, when we visited Fargo and spoke with three women who worked for the only abortion clinic in North Dakota, the presidential elections had not yet been decided. One of the central issues defining the cultural war--and the difference between a McCain and an Obama administration--is the issue of choice. The women who worked at <a href="http://www.redriverwomensclinic.com/">Red River Women's Clinic</a> told us that the topic is especially sensitive in the Dakotas; although there is a strong pro-choice voice, much of North and South Dakota is vehemently pro-life. Billboards like the one below (just west of Sioux Falls) weren't unusual to spot on the side of the road.<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">We checked back in with two of these ladies and asked them their predictions and hopes for a <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SSWzRQVj41I/AAAAAAAACnA/GXTrX-_EEp4/s1600-h/abortion+sign.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 315px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SSWzRQVj41I/AAAAAAAACnA/GXTrX-_EEp4/s320/abortion+sign.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270816047931581266" border="0" /></a>pro-choice, Obama presidency. They both seemed excited and hopeful.<br /><div><br /></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Becca told us:<br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">"It would be more than fair to say that all of our staff (and probably a majority of our patients) are glad to see our choice more secure with Obama as president. I have always been proud to work at the RRWC and being connected to our community, but it is frustrating to see legislation, ND, and our country move towards conservative values that leaves women with an unwanted pregnancies and people in other situations without control over their lives. Obama gives a me peace that we have a leader that I can trust and be excited about."<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">In response to our questions, Dena sent us a copy of a newsletter article she wrote regarding the election outcome. Here is an excerpt from her piece:<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">"Many of us woke up elated November 5th and for those of us who are pro-choice, a huge factor for our bright Wednesday morning was that our nation elected a pro-choice president. We elected a man who unabashedly stated 'A woman's ability to decide how many children to have and when, without interference from the government, is one of the most fundamental rights we possess. It is not just an issue of choice, but equality and opportunity for all women.'...Obama is also a strong supporter of comprehensive sex education and government funding of family<br />planning...The citizens in the United States spoke loudly and clearly with the election of a pro-choice president and the defeat of anti-choice legislation in two states. With these positive changes now is the time to keep that momentum going."<br /><br />Read the rest of Dena's article <a href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3476321794883547115&postID=2820004722072154315">here</a>.<br /></span></span></span></span></div></span></span>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-10567083824086059802008-10-24T19:15:00.011-05:002008-10-26T20:33:48.126-05:00Moorhead: Beth<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SQUZxMbEuaI/AAAAAAAACmI/jEkE3EswrH0/s1600-h/beth+dakota.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 180px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SQUZxMbEuaI/AAAAAAAACmI/jEkE3EswrH0/s320/beth+dakota.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5261640072591358370" /></a><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Beth (<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">right, at her parents' farm</span>): 20, lives and grew up on a farm in Moorhead, ND, second oldest of five kids, started her own business a year ago called <a href="http://edenphotography.biz/">Eden Photography</a>, attends bible college through the Fargo Baptist church.<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">"I wouldn't say I was a feminist. I don't believe that women should be a doormat--we're all equal to God--but he gives us different roles. The way I see it is that if this is his will, to raise the next generation, you're going to be your happiest [raising children]...you can have your business on the side, as sort of a "fallback" I would say, but your focus is on your family and God. I don't think that certain people shouldn't get a job because they're a woman, but I do think in a marriage, you should submit. There are definitely roles for a husband and wife, and feminism would be erasing that."</span></span>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-74194226675772426132008-10-24T18:22:00.005-05:002008-10-24T19:45:34.154-05:00Fargo: Prairie Rose<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SQJroLWGOmI/AAAAAAAACmA/T2eFmXOGuPM/s1600-h/prairie+rose.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 180px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SQJroLWGOmI/AAAAAAAACmA/T2eFmXOGuPM/s320/prairie+rose.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5260885652706572898" border="0" /></a><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Prairie Rose (<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">left, in her Fargo apartment</span>): 28, member of the Fort Berthhold reservation in northwest North Dakota, grew up in Fargo, half Cheyenne/Arikara, half German-Russian, one of six kids. Former manager of the Fargo theater and now works with a local promoter, but her "passion lies with social justice issues."<br /><br />"The Western interpretation [of native culture] is that women were very domesticated--they did all the housework, the skinning and tanning and building of homes. But with this comes a lot of balance...the women were the backbone of our society. The men were the skin--we can't survive without skin, and they protected us. The tradeoff was that women were responsible for education...we were the healers, the doctors, the midwives, we had power...<br /><br />"[Now] Native American women suffer two or three times the rate of domestic violence, rape and incest than their Caucasian counterparts. What happened with our history is that our way of life was taken away from us...we were compassionate and equitable. But when you are a people who have lost everything, who are relocated, who are forced into this whole assimilation process, you lose yourselves--because of oppression we became the oppresors. There is a new generation are trying to bring back who we are, but it's a hard cycle to break."</span>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-81607504434987978072008-10-23T16:40:00.006-05:002008-10-24T17:32:22.446-05:00GIRLdrive hits the Dakotas!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SQD2MIjuQqI/AAAAAAAACl4/75aQtpBdXkM/s1600-h/antonia+dakota.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 225px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SQD2MIjuQqI/AAAAAAAACl4/75aQtpBdXkM/s400/antonia+dakota.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5260475053084918434" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SQDzoG4W3SI/AAAAAAAAClo/CZ8VzPp9B04/s1600-h/+nona+dakota"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 225px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SQDzoG4W3SI/AAAAAAAAClo/CZ8VzPp9B04/s400/+nona+dakota" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5260472235136048418" border="0" /></a><span style="line-height: 1.4;">This past weekend we headed out to the Dakotas (our first time!), visiting Fargo, Sioux Falls, Lake Andes and more... mostly gazing and gawking at the sweeping farmlands that define the region. It has been exactly a year since we first headed out on the road, and this was sadly our last official trip for book content. Roadtrip addicts that we are, though, I am sure we will be back soon enough. Until then, look forward to snippets in the coming weeks from the singular Dakotas women we had the pleasure of interviewing. Here below, sample some of our candid moments (with girlfriend Antonia) at one with the road. <div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /><div><img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SQD14niOEYI/AAAAAAAAClw/n-i2GcdH8to/s400/emmatoninona+copy.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5260474717802729858" style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 225px;" border="0" /></div></div>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-82783412590797103022008-09-24T22:06:00.008-05:002008-12-03T13:17:11.948-06:00Mid-Week Memo: Nuns, Sex, and Contraception<span style="line-height: 1.4;">Note: This is Part 2 in a 3-part series discussing Chastity, Purity, and Promiscuity.<br /><br />Last week we met up with Katharine (<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">below</span>), a 23-year-old resident of Forest Park, IL, studying to be a librarian and working at a couple non-profits downtown. She also has another possible title in her future: nun. She has resolved to either fall in love with a man and devote herself to a family, or become a nun and devote herself to God and those who need help. Katharine, at first glance, does not fit any chaste stereotypes, coming across as a perfectly normal, stylish, cool twentysomething. She even told us she thought that a nun is "the ultimate feminist. They are looking at the world and saying, 'Listen, you want to care about what your clothes look like? I don't care. You want to care about making money? I don't make any money! You want to cast </span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SNxXcTYZ-hI/AAAAAAAAClg/qcrCcyzWlzw/s1600-h/IMG_0713.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SNxXcTYZ-hI/AAAAAAAAClg/qcrCcyzWlzw/s400/IMG_0713.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5250167409357748754" border="0" /></a><span style="line-height: 1.4;">down those who are burdened? I want to pick them up.' She has given up her entire life, her clothes, her cool shoes, just so that she can help people who don't have help. That's really empowering."<br /><br />But she also voiced some very strong opinions about sex and what it should mean in a woman's life. Emma, in a conversation about waiting to have sex until marriage, asked Katharine: "Is it ever okay for a woman to have sex just...because?" Katharine answered:<br /><br />"My view here is to look at a person's entirety. So, a person isn't simply a body, or a brain, or a soul--all of these things make up an entire person and to be separate one or all of these things would be using the other person. In the case of sex, it is the use of his or her body. To an extent it is saying, "I'd love to have fun with you, but I don't want to deal with your emotions or well being after that. You're not a person--just an object, just a body." Or, in the case of couples using contraception, "I want all of you...except your fertility. We can just throw that part out of the mix for now." But, even in a case where love is deeply involved, contraception still eliminates an aspect of the woman's whole being--fertility is written into our genetics and we can't deny it."<br /><br />Our interview with Katharine was one of our best, yet another reminder that a feminist can come in many forms, one who doesn't fit the strict parameters pop culture assigns to her.<br /><br /><br /><br /></span>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-60560143325426316912008-09-16T10:30:00.004-05:002008-09-16T10:36:56.192-05:00Bitch Magazine in Trouble! Please Help<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SM_SMtMx9-I/AAAAAAAAClQ/ARnciud30UA/s1600-h/Bitch_41_web.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SM_SMtMx9-I/AAAAAAAAClQ/ARnciud30UA/s400/Bitch_41_web.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5246643206643382242" /></a><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Hi guys,<br /><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">We normally don't do these types of things on our blog, but this one's close to our heart. Bitch Magazine, which is run by one of our interviewees, <a href="http://girldrive.blogspot.com/2007/10/portland-andi.html">Andi Zeisler</a> in Portland, in in serious financial trouble. This is a kick-ass publication--filled with wit, humor, and important commentary on feminist issues. So offer your help at this <a href="http://bitchmagazine.org/donate/give-now">link</a>, even if it's just $5!<br /><br />-N and EGIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-88693205389971056062008-08-30T19:27:00.008-05:002008-09-09T13:45:10.954-05:00Philly: CILLE AND THEMBI<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SMSG-uwvD7I/AAAAAAAAClA/W5cMbKZLXJw/s1600-h/P1030982.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SMSG-uwvD7I/AAAAAAAAClA/W5cMbKZLXJw/s320/P1030982.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5243464278428553138" border="0" /></a><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Thembi (<span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);">left</span>): 29, originally from Philly, works for an educational testing service, really wants to be a "media maven--a writer and a talking head," writes a blog called "<a href="http://whatwouldthembido.blogspot.com/">What Would Thembi Do?</a>", a blog about black pop culture, among other things.<div><br /></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;">"One of the main things I'm disappointed about is that women don't band together more over sexual health. Don't ever have a women's health problem, because it will destroy your life. It makes me so mad the way doctors act toward something as personal as a reproductive system--which, by the way, are half female, it's not like it's some crazy thing that we can't understand. But if there's something wrong, the doctor is not able to say anything besides, 'Wait and see what happens.'...None of this, including breast cancer and diseases that affect women, has been addressed properly." </div><div><div><br /></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Cille (<span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);">right</span>): 24, originally from Philly, currently working for the city in<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SMSH5AjFnnI/AAAAAAAAClI/xZRuGS2-U4M/s1600-h/P1040026.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SMSH5AjFnnI/AAAAAAAAClI/xZRuGS2-U4M/s320/P1040026.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5243465279635562098" border="0" /></a> emergency management, wants to pursue a Masters in public policy and a law degree--to become the "good" Condoleezza Rice.</div><div><br /></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;">"I relate to the term 'womanist' more than 'feminist.' It has a spiritual essence in it that you can't really divorce from the Black female experience. Feminism is not rooted in the spirit...it's too political. Womanist thinking is always based in theology: identifying the spirit in both men and women and making them whole, but in particular it relates to Black women and how we've been able to use the spirit of the Creator to heal our families and ourselves, and to take care of people and be the breadbaskets and mules of the world. What has sustained us over that time has been a spirit, whether it be God, whether it be whatever you believe in. [For many black women] that word has a more prominent meaning than feminism does."</div><div><br /></div></div>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3476321794883547115.post-22331271101327324222008-07-28T12:08:00.003-05:002008-08-17T01:25:55.980-05:00New York: LIKWUID<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SKB41bkU9kI/AAAAAAAACkI/_fahZXDLhIE/s1600-h/likwuid"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_MTVWa9gwCOk/SKB41bkU9kI/AAAAAAAACkI/_fahZXDLhIE/s320/likwuid" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5233315626333042242" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="line-height: 1.4;">Likwuid: 26, born and raised in Columbia, SC, hip hop artist (her music linked <a href="http://www.myspace.com/likwuidstylez">here</a>), personal trainer, learning how to DJ, has her own company, <a href="http://royaltymedia.net/">Royalty Media Group</a>, which works on changing how women are viewed in hip hop.<div><br /></div><div><span style="line-height: 1.4;">"There are numerous women that are making great music. But if you let the industry tell it, they say, 'Oh, women don't sell, women artists are too hard to work with, you gotta do their fashion, their budgets.' I'm like, 'Please, you got men walking around with blue chinchilla coats.' The excuses that come up with women, they just don't add up. The problem really is that hip hop is so focused on objectifying women that they can't even step out and take an objective look at the situation. These women aren't selling because you're creating the same Barbie over and over again. When we had Queen Latifah, MC Lyte, it was balanced, it was beautiful, they had their individual style. Now they're taking women out of the picture and people are saying hip hop is dead. Of course it's dead! How you gonna have life with only one gender?"</div>GIRLdrivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04691090052628234020noreply@blogger.com2